ssh fails to connect- fedora 19

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I just updated from fedora 17 to fedora 19 using fedup in both my laptop and desktop. Somehow ssh is not working in both my laptop and desktop.

In both systems I ensured the following:

1. Ports defined in /etc/ssh/sshd.config
2. SELINUX set to permissive
3. Enabled and started ssh by /sbin/services sshd start
4. Checked ssh status with systemctl status sshd.service and it says that Server listening on :: port 9022
5. Also added port in semanage

It still doesn' t work (No route to host)

Laptop is on wifi and the cables and connections are fine since I can connect to the internet.

LAPTOP

IP: 192.168.21.57

Routing table:

Destination     Gateway         Genmask         Flags   MSS Window  irtt Iface
default         192.168.20.1    0.0.0.0         UG        0 0          0 wlp3s0
192.168.20.0    *               255.255.254.0   U         0 0          0 wlp3s0

pinging the desktop 192.168.14.110 gives no problems:

21 packets transmitted, 21 received, 0% packet loss, time 20027ms
rtt min/avg/max/mdev = 2.118/21.040/128.028/38.759 ms

Desktop to laptop ping also works.

Desktop routing table:

Destination     Gateway         Genmask         Flags   MSS Window  irtt Iface
default         192.168.14.1    0.0.0.0         UG        0 0          0 em1
192.168.14.0    *               255.255.255.0   U         0 0          0 em1

I couldn't open firewall settings though (both in laptop and desktop): If try I open it from the menu or from commandline (system-config-firewall) it says: ERROR: FirewallD is active, please use firewall-config

I don't have much idea about how to configure firewall from commandline.

What could be wrong ?

EDIT 2

ssh -v host -p 9022 returns this:

OpenSSH_6.2p2, OpenSSL 1.0.1e-fips 11 Feb 2013
debug1: Reading configuration data /etc/ssh/ssh_config
debug1: /etc/ssh/ssh_config line 50: Applying options for *
debug1: Connecting to 192.168.14.110 [192.168.14.110] port 9022.
debug1: connect to address 192.168.14.110 port 9022: No route to host
ssh: connect to host 192.168.14.110 port 9022: No route to host